On the Happier with Gretchen Rubin podcast, Elizabeth and I usually pose “know your self higher” questions. It is surprisingly arduous to know ourselves! Once we get higher perception into our personal values, quirks, and nature, we regularly determine patterns or spot potentialities to make ourselves happier, more healthy, extra artistic — and extra productive.
In episode 391, in a dialogue of productiveness, we requested listeners, “What sort of procrastinator are you?”
We recognized a number of sorts:
- Procrasti-clearing or procrasti-cleaning — I write about this problem in my ebook Outer Order, Interior Calm
- Procrasti-creating — I remind myself that “Working is likely one of the most harmful types of procrastination.” For all my fellow Sport of Thrones lovers, it certain appears as if George R. R. Martin is procrasti-creating about ending The Winds of Winter.
- Procrati-viewing — we have all accomplished it!
- Procrasti-scrolling — and the associated procrasti-shopping
- Procrastic-waiting — await another person to encourage you or invite you to go forward, comparable to a mentor or advocate
- Procrasti-gaming — Elizabeth mentions our Attempt-This-at-Dwelling suggestion to “Delete a soul-sucking app” from episode 91
- Procrasti-claiming — making questionable claims concerning the guidelines that apply or limitations that exist: “I can not work at evening,” “I am going to do higher if I start within the new 12 months”
After the episode aired, listeners recognized extra types of procrastination:
- Procrasti-snacking — so widespread!
- Procrasti-caffeinating — cannot begin and not using a beverage
- Procrasti-researching — it is a explicit concern for Questioners, who can fall into analysis-paralysis
- Procrastic-caring — laying aside your personal activity since you’re caring for another person’s needs first. One listener made a useful level: “Step one in eliminating this one is defining needs vs. wants for the folks in your life. Kids want to be fed, however they might be choosy and need elaborate sorts of meals that take manner an excessive amount of effort and time.”
Generally, as many individuals noticed, a little bit of procrastination could be helpful:
- “I exploit housekeeping to procrastinate on writing, however generally it really works since senseless exercise can let my mind develop concepts and get that ‘aha’ to interrupt by blocks.”
- “Generally, doing a fast and straightforward activity helps me overcome the anxiousness of tackling an enormous or overwhelming mission.”
- “I’ve to get all of the stuff on my telephone accomplished earlier than I can give attention to different stuff, or else it simply bugs me and retains my thoughts distracted.”
The secret is to ensure that this sort of procrastination is restricted, in order that it does not take up a lot time and power that we do not sort out the principle activity.
Elizabeth had a useful strategy to determine whether or not a type of procrastination is useful, by enthusiastic about the thought of mise-en-place. In cooking, you “put the whole lot instead” — you pull instruments and substances collectively, so as soon as you start, you’ll be able to work simply and effectively. Elizabeth advised me, “We will ask ourselves, is that this mise-en-place? Am I clearing off my desk so I can calm down? Am I getting a cup of espresso to assist me sort out my work, or am I getting ready an elaborate meal?”
As with all know-yourself-better query, readability brings perception. As soon as we all know the sorts of procrastination we have a tendency to make use of, we are able to extra simply spot unhelpful patterns.
Additionally, needless to say there is a distinction between “sprinting” and “procrastinating.” Sprinters intentionally await the stress of a deadline to assist make clear their considering and increase their power. Against this, with procrastination, folks really feel as if they need to be working, and so they want they might work, however someway they can not make themselves.
Most of us most likely have just a few favourite types of procrastination.
Mine are: procrasti-clearing, procrasti-creating, procrasti-claiming, and procrasti-caffeinating. Now that I do know this side of myself, I can higher guard in opposition to falling into this sort of delay.
How about you — in case you procrastinate, what classes attraction most to you? How do you guard in opposition to them?